I just want to know why you guys always talking about you don't want a gold digger, but you always talking about what you drive and how you can buy this and that.
Have you ever thought that your actions attract that kind of girl?
Example: I was at the mall and this boy was trying to holla. He was like can I have your number. I told him no. He press the button on this alarm, and turned back around and asked me if I was sure. He just wanted me to see what kind of car he was driving and that he had rims.
Why do you all do that?
P.S. I know all males don't do this.
Ok, I work a normal job. It's a fun job, but it doesn't pay like I'd like.
I drive a 1989 Oldsmobile. Even though I take good care of it, it's light-years away from being "flossin'" material.
I still attract the gold-diggin', materialistic women. Their ways aren't as blatant as others, but eventually the hurtful truth comes out, and I finally find out that they'd rather have the football player with the 2004 SUV with the 24in. rims.
So am I supposed to feel like all girls are like this?
"Now I aint sayin she no gold digger
But she aint messin wit no broke ****" :lol:
I dont have time to "floss" and be in debt and live at my momma house, lol, its crazy most of those nuccas that got the fresh whip wit the rims, dont have nothin else, still live at home, living by his momma rules. and like Serpant said, they have no game usually
I have a situation where this boy has been trying to get with me for over a year. He always talks about he has money and i know that but that's not important to me. He will go out to the mall and let her pick out some shoes for me and he will buy them just like that. Now if you are just going to buy me shoes without me asking i'm not going to give them up, plus i'm a shoe fiend. So what does that mean, he knows i'll never get with him yet he keeps buying me stuff. Does that make me a gold digger?
^^^.... :lol: . Well, I guess they do have hard jobs then. I may not have alot, but if I like a girl, I give her what I have. SOmetime....SOMETIMES....I'd like to treat her when we go out. I don't expect anything in return. I just sometimes like to show that I am financially stable enough to do things together.