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It's the approach that counts Posted on 07-11-2005

So_Focused
Landover, MD
Guys do you prefer girls who remain available for YOU to approach them or do you find it attractive for a female to approach you. In some situations, guys find it aggressive when a female makes the first move. while other dudes see it as a postive thing. So I'm sayin, tell me how yall feel about it.
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La replied on 07-11-2005 04:41PM [Reply]
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TheRealOne from Tallahassee, FL replied on 07-11-2005 05:11PM [Reply]
Honestly I wouldn't mind if a girl approached me. I'm glad that she let me know instead of throwing out some stupid hints. Most of the time, though, I would approach the girl. Really, it doesn't matter to me.
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replied on 07-11-2005 05:15PM [Reply]
So_Focused wrote:
Guys do you prefer girls who remain available for YOU to approach them or do you find it attractive for a female to approach you. In some situations, guys find it aggressive when a female makes the first move. while other dudes see it as a postive thing. So I'm sayin, tell me how yall feel about it.
Now, me/myself/personally, a girl who isn't afraid to approach me is subtlely(sp?) tellin me that she's not your average girl. That in itself is enough to make me greet her approach with open arms. It's damn near 2006. Females need to get rid of that "I dont approach men" attitude. If she feels like she's too good to approach a man, that tells me that she feels the same way about A LOT OF OTHER DIFFERENT THINGS ALSO....
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replied on 07-12-2005 02:27AM [Reply]
I prefer the girls who sit and wait. The only thing that I think is wrong is these CLUES AND HINTS. Females should make them more clear, cause that would make approaching a lot easier.
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replied on 07-12-2005 11:09AM [Reply]
Last semester, I asked a random guy that was on the yard... Would he rather have a girl approach him or he approach her. He said he wouldn't care if she approached him.
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Miss. Soulful from Macon, GA replied on 07-12-2005 04:55PM [Reply]

Kool 5000 wrote:
So_Focused wrote:
Guys do you prefer girls who remain available for YOU to approach them or do you find it attractive for a female to approach you. In some situations, guys find it aggressive when a female makes the first move. while other dudes see it as a postive thing. So I'm sayin, tell me how yall feel about it.
Now, me/myself/personally, a girl who isn't afraid to approach me is subtlely(sp?) tellin me that she's not your average girl. That in itself is enough to make me greet her approach with open arms. It's damn near 2006. Females need to get rid of that "I dont approach men" attitude. If she feels like she's too good to approach a man, that tells me that she feels the same way about A LOT OF OTHER DIFFERENT THINGS ALSO....
Well for me, i'm very shy, guys think that i'm stuck up because i won't approach them, when its just because...... i'm to shy to just walk up to somebody and talk to them. Now if this guy is one that speaks whenever i see him, just a hi or how's your day, i will approach him in a way to start a conversation, and see were it goes from there.
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replied on 07-18-2005 12:31AM [Reply]
Miss. Soulful wrote:
Well for me, i'm very shy, guys think that i'm stuck up because i won't approach them, when its just because...... i'm to shy to just walk up to somebody and talk to them. Now if this guy is one that speaks whenever i see him, just a hi or how's your day, i will approach him in a way to start a conversation, and see were it goes from there.
Co-signs. I'm terribly shy, but if I've known him for a good minute and have had some type of conversation with him, then it would me much easier for me to sit down and have a more meaningful conversation.
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In Rod We Trust replied on 07-21-2005 07:52PM [Reply]
Man when females approach me I get nervous lol.... Cuz it dont really happen that often. I be like But if shes approaches me then I feel like she got a quality most girls dont posses.... she knows what she wants
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So_Focused from Landover, MD replied on 07-21-2005 10:18PM [Reply]

R.O.D.D. wrote:
Man when females approach me I get nervous lol.... Cuz it dont really happen that often. I be like But if shes approaches me then I feel like she got a quality most girls dont posses.... she knows what she wants
yeah i feel u on that
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